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Farmhouse wedding upstate New York

Magical, magnificent, spectacular, perfect. These are only some of the words used by guests to describe Mary and Aidan's wedding on August 5, 2023.  


After a Nuptial Mass featuring beautiful sacred chant, polyphony, organ, and trumpet at St. Malachy's Roman Catholic Church in nearby Sherburne, The Beardslee Homestead was the perfect setting for the celebration, with a three-hour cocktail reception in the hops field surrounded by rolling hills; followed by five hours of dinner and dancing in the horse barn adorned with black walnut wood, lights, and crystal; and capped by a fireworks, brick-oven pizza, and home-made limoncello after-party in the pizzeria.  Attentive and meticulous, not to mention delicious, catering par-excellence was provided by Michael's Fine Foods & Spirits of Waterville, NY and terrific music was provided by Allegro Entertainment of Rochester. Special guest singers Tom Golden and Jeff Keller (who played the Phantom in Phantom of the Opera on Broadway) sang for Mary and Aidan.   

Throughout the afternoon and evening guests explored the Unadilla River Walk, the Apiary, the Blacksmith Shop, the Library and Map Room, the Astronomical Observatory, the Chicken Coop, the Hops Museum, or had fun playing lawn games like badminton, giant Jenga, wiffle ball, disk golf, horseshoes, and so much more.   Then the dinner and dancing and fun began.  Watch these videos and the videos in the Video Gallery for joyful moments of Mary and Aidan's wedding at The Beardslee Homestead.


Father Bride Waltz Farmhouse Wedding
Click on the images above for two very enchanting short videos, including a Father Daughter Waltz


"This was the best night I've ever had.  Thank you, Daddy.  I left a card on the dining room table for you and Mommy to read.  I love you, goodnight."  --- The Bride

"I felt like a King, and that my Princess Mary was becoming Aidan's Queen.  It was truly magical."  --- The Father of the Bride

"We absolutely loved everything, and we truly appreciate the opportunity to share this beautiful wedding with you and your family, it was amazing.  You can most definitely see the love you have for your family.  I so wish all families could have the same love, this world would be so much happier and healthier.. . Again, absolutely beautiful."  --- A Guest from New Berlin

"We so much enjoyed how you magically transformed the farm."  --- Guests from New Jersey

"Thank you for inviting us and making us part of this important moment, extraordinarily organized and cared for down to the smallest detail, absolutely glamorous and at the same time intense, full of authenticity and spontaneity. And of love, in its various forms and perspectives."  --- Guests from Italy

"We have been basking in the loveliness of the wedding weekend all week!  We have told so many friends and family of the beauty and love that surrounded this weekend.  It was spectacular. . . truly wonderful.  Thank you for being such gracious hosts and for welcoming us so openly into your home.  You truly have something unique and special." --- Guests from Michigan

"The love that surrounds your family is a Blessing--enjoyed myself thoroughly. . .  It tells us who we are when we have such blessed people in our lives."  --- A Guest from Long Island

"Only just this week am I returning to reality from the planned it to perfection. . .I've listened to your PFOB (Proud Father of the Bride) speech about 8 times, and it gets me every time."  --- A guest from Port Chester writing 10 days after the wedding.

"On behalf of our entire family, I wanted to express our congratulations on the PERFECT wedding celebration for the PERFECT couple.  1 + 1 = Infinity.  And our appreciation for including us in such a meaningful way.  Everyone had a terrific time and special memories from our first of many Greco Farm weddings to come!  Thank you."  --- Guests from Florida


"We are writing to express our appreciation to you for being such gracious hosts this past weekend. . . Your invitation enabled us to couple a trip to the Baseball Hall of Fame in Cooperstown, which was a fantastic long-overdue experience for us.  It was a great experience to attend a wedding in a barn and to visit a farm.  You have a magnificent home and an impressive piece of property!" --- Guests from Long Island



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